“Absolutely no regrets.”
-Madonna
Regrets are universal. Everyone (except Madonna) has them. According to Regretsonly.com: Regrets transcend age, gender, race, culture, nationality, religion, language, social status and geographic location.
Yet, as a culture, regrets seem to be rarely talked about. We are always ready to criticize; ready to point fingers and accuse. Rarely are we ready to admit we were wrong, and even rarer is there a public lament. I pored through five books by designers this morning: Milton Glaser’s Art is Work, Bruce Mau’s Lifestyle, Tibor’s Tibor, Kirkham’s Charles and Ray Eames, and Nicholas Burke’s Michael Graves. Except for Milton’s “12 Steps to Hell,” there was nary a word about mistakes, regrets, and those small, late-night “I wish I had done something differently” moments.
But I think it is helpful to learn from others’ mistakes. So I put it to the brave Speak Up writers and readers: looking back on the work you have done and the things you have been through in your practices, careers, projects and so on: Is there anything you wish you had done differently? Any regrets out there?
+ See also Speak Up: Screw-Ups, Low Points
I regret that I didn't make the commitment to studying graphic design earlier in my life. (I was an engineer until I switched careers at 30.)
I sometimes regret that I didn't make a deeper commitment by going to a better school. (Though admittedly my comparative lack of school loan debt feels pretty good.)
I regret not meeting more designers. But at least that regret is still pretty much fixable.
On Jun.26.2003 at 11:40 AM